How to Set a Realistic Wedding Budget in Ireland
Wedding budgets get a bad reputation — but let me help you set a budget that actually works.
This article skips the vague averages and gives you a practical guide to setting a budget that fits your life, your priorities, and your version of a meaningful celebration.
Start with what you can actually afford
Forget what everyone else is spending. Your budget should reflect:
What you already have saved
What you could realistically save before the wedding
Whether anyone else (like family) is contributing
Any loans you can and/or want to take
Write down two numbers:
Your ideal budget – the number you’d love to stay under
Your max stretch budget – what you could manage if needed, without debt
You’ll almost always spend what you allocate. So if you skip this step, overspending isn’t just likely — it’s guaranteed.
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What does a 'realistic' wedding budget even mean?
It’s not about hitting some magic number — it’s about comfort, priorities, and financial boundaries. Whether your total is €10K or €100K, your budget should reflect what feels right for you — not what social media says you should spend.
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Budget busters to watch for
Even the most careful plans can get derailed. Watch out for:
Extra venue fees (ceremony setup, exclusive access, corkage)
Underestimated decor costs (especially with blank-slate venues)
Unplanned upgrades (extra flowers, lighting, late bar extensions)
Day-two and pre-wedding celebrations
Spot them early so you can either include them — or confidently skip them.
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Spend where it counts
You don’t need to cut everything — just choose where your money goes. Prioritise what actually matters to you, and go light on the rest.
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☁️ Useful tool: Wedding Budget and Vendor Planner